Contents 1 Scope 2 Etymology 3 Related terms 4 Distinction from "lady friend" 5 See also 6 References 7 Bibliography


Scope[edit] A man with his girlfriend at Alexanderplatz in March 1975. Partners in committed relationships are also sometimes described as a "significant other" or simply "partner", especially if the individuals are cohabiting.[3] "Girlfriend" and "partner" mean different things to different people; the distinctions between the terms are subjective. How the term is used will ultimately be determined by personal preference.[4][5] In 2005, a study was conducted of 115 people ages 21 to 35 who were either living with or had lived with a romantic partner. It notes that the lack of proper terms often leads to awkward situations, such as someone becoming upset over not being introduced in social situations to avoid the question.[6] There exists some ambiguity between the terms "girl friend," or a friend who is a girl, and "girlfriend." The transition between the two is a significant aspect of adolescent development.[7] Both forms of "girlfriend" and "girl friend" are used by different people to mean different things. For example, when the term "girlfriend" is used by a female about another female in a non-sexual, non-romantic context, the two-word form "girl friend" is sometimes used to avoid confusion with the sexual or romantic meaning; however, this is not a rule. In this sense of its usage, "girlfriend" is used in terms of very close friends and has no sexual connotations, unless it is in the case of lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, transgender women. The term "girlfriend" is also used in LGBT communities and can refer to people of any sex or sexuality.[8][9] The term "girlfriend" does not necessarily imply a sexual relationship, but is often used to refer to a girl or woman who is dating a person she is not engaged to without indicating whether she is having sex with them. With differing expectations of sexual mores, the term "dating" can imply romantic activity whereas simply using "friend" would likely avoid implying such intimacy. It is essentially equivalent to the term "sweetheart", which has also been used as a term of endearment.[10] A similar relationship wherein there is no exclusivity is sometimes referred to by terms such as friend with benefits.[11]


Etymology[edit] The word "girlfriend" was first used in 1863 as "a woman's female friend in youth.” In 1922, the word girlfriend was used to mean a man’s sweetheart.[12] The word "dating" entered the American language during the Roaring Twenties. Prior to that, courtship was a matter of family and community interest. Starting around the time of the Civil War, courtship became a private matter for couples.[13]


Related terms[edit] A female engaged in an extramarital relationship with a married man is frequently considered a "mistress". The word "mistress" was originally used as a neutral counterpart for the words "mister" or "master".[14] The word "madam" is still a respectful form of address, but has had sexual connotations since the early 18th century and has been used to refer to the owner of a brothel since the early 20th century.[14] Some terms of endearment directed to females, a romantic relationship not required, are "darling", "sweetheart", "love", etc.[15] Users of Internet slang and SMS slang often shorten "girlfriend" to the initialism "gf".[16] Additionally, gender-indiscriminate terms also apply (e.g., lover, heartthrob, paramour, squeeze, sweetheart, true love, wooer, date, escort, steady, admirer, bae, or companion).


Distinction from "lady friend"[edit] A similar, but not equivalent, concept is the more ambiguous "lady friend" – a companion of the female gender who is possibly less than a girlfriend but potentially more than a friend. That is to say, the relationship is not necessarily platonic, nor is it necessarily an exclusive, serious, committed, or long-term relationship. The term avoids the overt sexual implications that come with referring to a woman as someone's "mistress" or "lover". In that sense, it can often be a euphemism. The term can also sometimes be employed when someone simply does not know the exact status of a woman that a man has been associating with. For instance, tabloid headlines often note that a celebrity has been seen with a new "lady friend".[17][18] "Lady friend" may also be used to signify a romantic relationship with an older woman, when the term "girl" as in "girlfriend" may be deemed age-inappropriate. The New York Times style guide discourages the use of the term "girlfriend" for an adult romantic partner, stating, "Companion is a suitable term for an unmarried partner of the same or the opposite sex."[19] The Times received some criticism[19] for referring to Shaha Riza as the "girlfriend" of World Bank president Paul Wolfowitz in one article about the controversy over their relationship. Other news articles in the Times had generally referred to her as Wolfowitz's "companion".


See also[edit] Sociology portal Domestic partnership Girlfriend experience


References[edit] ^ The Free Dictionary By Farlex. "Girlfriend". Retrieved 6 May 2012.  ^ Thesaurus.com. "Boyfriend". Retrieved 6 May 2012.  ^ Thesaurus.com. "Significant other". Retrieved 6 May 2012.  ^ StackExchange. "English Language & Usage". Retrieved 6 May 2012.  ^ Sam. "Why I say 'partner" instead of boyfriend or girlfriend". Retrieved 6 May 2012.  ^ Jayson, Sharon (23 June 2008). "Adults stumble over what to call their romantic partners". USA Today. Retrieved 6 May 2012.  ^ Grover, R. L.; Nangle, D. W.; Serwik, A.; Zeff, K. R. (2007). "Girl friend, boy friend, girlfriend, boyfriend: Broadening our understanding of heterosocial competence". Journal of Clinical Child and Adolescent Psychology. 36 (4): 491–502. doi:10.1080/15374410701651637. PMID 18088208.  ^ Byrd, Rudolph P.; Beverly Guy-Sheftall (2001). Traps: African American Men on Sex and Sexuality. Indiana University Press, ISBN 0-253-21448-3. Retrieved 24 January 2008.  ^ Salamensky, Shelley I.; Beverly Guy-Sheftall (2001). Talk Talk Talk: The Cultural Life of Everyday Conversation. Routledge, ISBN 0-415-92170-8. Retrieved 24 January 2008.  ^ The Free Dictionary By Farlex. "Sweetheart". Retrieved 6 May 2012.  ^ Wentland, Jocelyn J., and Elke Reissing. "Casual sexual relationships: Identifying definitions for one night stands, booty calls, fuck buddies, and friends with benefits." The Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality 23.3 (2014): 167-177 ^ Harper, Douglas. "Girlfriend". Retrieved 6 May 2012.  ^ Hirsch, Elaine. "The History of Dating and Communication". Retrieved 6 May 2012.  ^ a b The Free Dictionary By Farlex. "Mistress". Retrieved 6 May 2012.  ^ Simpson, J.A. "Terms of Endearment". Archived from the original on 10 May 2012. Retrieved 6 May 2012.  ^ What does gf stand for?, AcronymFinder.com. Retrieved on 30 January 2008. ^ Connor, Tracy (6 November 2007). "Sir Paul McCartney photographed with married Hamptons lady friend". Daily News. New York.  ^ "WordNet Search". wordnetweb.princeton.edu.  ^ a b Ben Yagoda (20 April 2007). "What to call Paul Wolfowitz's special lady friend". Slate. 


Bibliography[edit] Look up girlfriend in Wiktionary, the free dictionary. Sociocultural Perspectives on Language Change in Diaspora David R. Andrews (1998); John Benjamins Publishing Company, ISBN 90-272-1835-8. The Handbook of Language and Gender By Janet Holmes, Miriam Meyerhoff (2003); Blackwell Publishing, ISBN 0-631-22502-1. In Your Face: Stories from the Lives of Queer Youth Mary L. Gray (1999); Haworth Press, ISBN 0-7890-0076-8. Defining Language: A Local Grammar of Definition Sentences Geoff Barnbrook (2002); John Benjamins Publishing Company, ISBN 1-58811-298-5. How Not To Say What You Mean: A Dictionary of Euphemisms R. W. Holder (2002); Oxford University Press, ISBN 0-19-860402-5. Retrieved from "https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Girlfriend&oldid=819034178" Categories: Intimate relationshipsTerms for femalesHidden categories: Use dmy dates from March 2017


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