Contents 1 Models 1.1 Stages leading to a breakup 1.2 Cycle of a breakup 1.3 Factors that predict a breakup before marriage 2 Uncoupling theory 3 See also 4 References


Models[edit] Several psychological models have been proposed to explain the process of a relationship breakup, many suggesting that 'relationship dissolution occurs in stages'.[3] Stages leading to a breakup[edit] L. Lee[4] proposes that there are five stages ultimately leading up to a breakup. Dissatisfaction – one or both partners grow dissatisfied with the relationship Exposure – both partners mutually become aware of the problems in the relationship Negotiation – both partners attempt to negotiate a solution to problems Resolution and transformation – both partners apply the outcome of their negotiation Termination – proposed resolution fails to rectify issues and no further solutions are accepted or applied Cycle of a breakup[edit] Steve Duck outlines a six-stage cycle of relationship breakup,[5] including Dissatisfaction with the relationship Social withdrawal Discussion of the reasons for the discontentment Going public Tidying up the memories Recreating sense of one's own social value Factors that predict a breakup before marriage[edit] Hill, Rubin and Peplau[6] identify 5 factors that predicted breakup before marriage: Unequal involvement in the relationship Age difference Different educational aspirations Difference in intelligence Difference in physical attractiveness


Uncoupling theory[edit] In 1976, sociologist Diane Vaughan proposed an "uncoupling theory," where there exists a "turning point" in the dynamics of relationship breakup – 'a precise moment when they "knew the relationship was over," when "everything went dead inside"' – followed by a transition period in which one partner unconsciously knows the relationship is going to end, but holds on to it for an extended period, even for years.[7] Vaughan considered that the process of breakup was asymmetrical for initiator and respondent: the former 'has begun mourning the loss of the relationship and has undertaken something tantamount to a rehearsal, mentally and, to varying degrees, experientially, of a life apart from the partner'.[8] The latter then has to play catch-up: 'to make their own transition out of the relationship, partners must redefine initiator and relationship negatively, legitimating the dissolution'.[9] As a result, for Vaughan 'getting out of a relationship includes a redefinition of self at several levels: in the private thoughts of the individual, between partners, and in the larger social context in which the relationship exists'.[10] She considered that 'uncoupling is complete when the partners have defined themselves and are defined by others as separate and independent of each other – when being partners is no longer a major source of identity'.[10]


See also[edit] Main article: Outline of relationships Broken heart Divorce Emotional baggage Human bonding John Gottman Resignation


References[edit] ^ "Breakup". Dictionary.com. Retrieved 2012-05-28.  ^ John H. Harvey, Perspectives on Loss (1998) p. 106 ^ Harvey, p. 106 ^ Lee, L. (1984). "Sequences in Separation: A Framework for Investigating Endings of the Personal (Romantic) Relationship". Journal of Social and Personal Relationships. 1 (1): 49–73. doi:10.1177/0265407584011004.  ^ Steve Duck et al, The Basics of Communications (2011) p. 151 Table 6.2 ^ Hill, Charles T.; Rubin Zick; Peplau Letita Anne (1976). "Breakups Before Marriage: The End of 103 Affairs". Journal of Social Issues. 32: 147–168. doi:10.1111/j.1540-4560.1976.tb02485.x. Retrieved 26 September 2012.  ^ Vaughan, Diane (1986). Uncoupling – Turning Points in Intimate Relationships. Oxford University Press. ISBN 0-679-73002-8.  p. 81 and p. 218n ^ Vaughan, p. 60 ^ Vaughan, p. 154 ^ a b Vaughan, p. 6 Retrieved from "https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Breakup&oldid=800945010" Categories: DivorceFamily lawHidden categories: All articles with unsourced statementsArticles with unsourced statements from February 2015Pages using div col without cols and colwidth parametersPages using Columns-list with deprecated parameters


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